People around us help us grow. In my last fifteen years as a single parent I have had the fortune of many talented ladies who have cared for me and brought me lasting joy. Helen Ansari my aerobics, zumba and yoga instructor at the Saw Mill Club in Mount Kisco, New York gave me the gift of great health. It is hard to believe that I have been taking her exercise classes for the last 20 years. She cares and motivates everyone to do their best, but above all she is talented at making the workout exciting. Helen is a breast cancer survivor and active with ACS. Darya, our god sent housekeeper, was amazing at helping my family with housecleaning, cooking and childcare. She helped us for four years. I have been fortunate to have two massage therapists, one for five years and another, more recently, for two years. Ali, from Cold Springs, NY massaged away all my tensions but unfortunately, three years ago she moved to Vermont. Now Kristen from New York City heals and helps me. She has the talent to make anyone’s body and mind soar from the depths of tensions, aches, and pains! Terry was my dance instructor and Marcia provided executive coaching. And Adalita makes my home spic and span. She is extremely reliable and trustworthy like the sunshine in San Diego. Also, all my lady friends have taught me how to have some fun.
My late wife Candy was always nurturing our home, our son, and our family. She adapted to all the challenges of life in stride. She taught me how to relate to people on their level and every level.
My mom taught me courage, effort, and integrity. From as early as I can remember to the day she passed away – for all of her 85 years of life – she found ways to enjoy life. For my mom, work was worship and family was joy. I feel the same way.
We all have choices in life – which people to keep around us for example, to nurture, make our lives simple, and help us grow. I am fortunate and grateful to have an amazing group of talented, caring, and nurturing people to help me. Now I am working on giving back to all those people that need it, particularly moms.